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How Holiday Stress Affects Your Sex Life (and What You Can Do About It)

Dreaming of a white Christmas? Oh, how lucky for you! So unbothered and untouched by the world!  I think most of us would be able to accept a couple of green patches peeking out through the snow in exchange for a smooth, stress-free holidays.

It’s a real shame that the ‘most wonderful time of the year’ is also the most runaround-crazy, heart-stopping, ‘did-I-leave-the-oven-on?’-anxiety-inducing time of the whole year. And like with any other kind of stress, it can have negative effects, specifically on your sex life.

Lessens Libido

Stress increases the firing off of hormones in our bodies, and while these are hormones that we need, prolonged production of them can have a negative mental effect and also hinder our sex lives. One of the chief offenders is cortisol, which, in large enough quantities will suppress our sex hormones, and works as the exact opposite of a libido booster.

Go Easy on the Eggnog!

During stressful times, we’re much more likely to reach for that extra glass of wine or, ah what the hell, that double scotch. Now combine holiday stress with a full social calendar of holiday parties, and you’re looking at a pretty precarious situation for anyone who seeks to escape with booze.

As far as food and drink to avoid before sex, booze is pretty high on the list: But whether you’re going to bed buzzed with a hook-up or with your S.O., it’s much more likely to be an exercise in frustration, as getting dehydrated on sugary cocktails makes lubrication more difficult, and with it, the chance of reaching orgasm. For fellas, all that alcohol can result in some difficulty in getting an erection, or at least getting one they’d be willing to share.

And speaking of holiday excess…

Body Image Bah! Humbug!

The holidays are already the eating-est, drinking-est time of year, making it no surprise that gym membership purchases shoot up by 40% come January. And it’s not just the fruitcake and mulled wine that affect our waistlines: some of the hormones we produce during times of stress have an effect on metabolism, further causing unintentional weight gain that the holidays are known for.

Seeing your body go through a transformation over the holidays doesn’t exactly make us want to get naked and hop into bed.

Okay, so the holidays aren’t all stress hormones, getting boozed up and feeling bloated right? Of course not! There are a number of things you can do to feel grounded throughout the holidays and beyond.

Prioritize Passion

During times of increased stress, sex drops down the priority list. However the feeling produced from sex and just intimacy in general naturally ward off stress, at least for a little while, giving you some respite from pressure. Be sure to make time with your partner to get intimate, or simply be close and cuddly for a while in order to recharge your batteries.

Allow Yourself an Outlet

As often as is possible with the holiday running-around, make time to do something that gets the stress out, and if they’re stress outlets that bolster your sensual side, then all the better. Take the time to do some breathing exercises or get yourself centered with a yoga session – here’s some naked yoga photography to get you inspired for that one – bottom line here is that using your body and focusing on your physical self will help in some way to exorcise the things floating around in your head.

Yoga and breathing exercises will also help you to release feel-good endorphins that will boost your mood, and another way to flood your system with positive endorphins is to masturbate! Yes, getting your rocks off with a bit of solo or mutual masturbation has a ton of health benefits, and a healthier peace of mind is among them – so this holiday season, don’t ho-ho-hold yourself back from sexual enjoyment.

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Boy Toys: Dismantling the Stigma Surrounding Masturbation Cups

What’s the big deal about guys using sex toys, particularly Fleshlights? Well, it depends who you ask.

The silence surrounding female masturbation has certainly done its damage to how we think about female pleasure, but thanks to something of a self-pleasure revolution (that we were happy to be part of), more and more people think of female masturbation as no big deal, or in fact, very normal and pretty awesome.

However, while attitudes toward male masturbation as a fact of life have long been held, there has also been a somewhat pervasive idea that it’s something to laugh about – or worse, that it’s somehow pathetic. This stigma sticks particularly to the use of sex toys, and is one that we’re just as keen to dismantle.

What’s the Big Deal?

If we were going to get into the business of adult picture books, we would call our first one ‘Everybody Masturbates.’ Or at least, a majority of people do. How often and how exactly they go about pursuing their solo sexual satisfaction – now that can vary a lot.

We can speak first hand when it comes to the popularity of prostate massagers and yet when it comes to a certain type of male sex toy – referred to colloquially as everything from Fleshlights (a brand name) to a truck driver’s best friend – there is an odd prevalence of the idea that if your hand works fine, purchasing a product like this is somehow indicative that the user is ‘too invested’ in their masturbation (read: weird).

Quite honestly, you could apply the same logic to anything – someone who dyes their hair is ‘too invested’ in how they look, when their natural color is just fine, for example. You really don’t need any other justification other than the fact that it feels good – some people are willing to spend a little extra time and effort to feel good and some aren’t.

(By the way, this says nothing of the fact that assuming everyone has the same masturbation ability when it comes to using their hands – sex when you have grip or mobility issues is certainly not impossible, just sometimes extra creative!)

Eggs, Sleeves & Cups

Right, so now that you’re convinced that judgements about how people msaturbate and whether they use toys or not have no business being in your bedroom, let’s talk about the different types of toys are available.

The term ‘Fleshlight’ is often used as an umbrella term to refer to a wide range of sex toys for male masturbation – kind of how we call most facial tissue ‘Kleenex’ – which the penis is put into while masturabting. They use a variety of textures and pressures to mimic  your orifice of choice, and voila!

However, that particular style of masturbation sleeve that Fleshlight deals in – rigid outer casing with a squishy, removeable inside  – has some definite drawbacks. For one, many of them are quite heavy, and quite expensive. If you’re not sure if you’d like the sensation of masturbation toy like this, we’d suggest checking out masturbation eggs – they’re small squishy ‘eggs’ that are designed for single use (you can clean then but they won’t hold up to that many uses).

If your previous experience with sex toys has been with those of the vibrating massager variety with a partner, and you wish you could have something like that, but designed for your body, then you’re in luck!

BLOWHOLE is a masturbation cup like the likes of which you won’t have seen before. Its shallow design focuses supersized vibrations around the head of your penis, and doesn’t require any thrusting on your part. And, even better, it can be controlled by the REMOJI app, which means not only do you not have to fiddle with buttons on the device to change the power or patterns, you can also hand off the controls to a partner and let them push your buttons!

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Quick & Dirty Guide to Christmas Gifts

Christmas: it’s the most wonderful time of the year, and some people will put a lot of stock into what they get in their stockings at Christmas. Never fear, LELO is here to help you impress (and undress) your special someone this year.

LELO_INA-Wave_Product_Cerise_425For Yourself – INA Wave

The holiday season is the perfect time to treat yourself, so make sure that you get what you really want this Christmas! The new WaveMotion™ technology will bring you to climaxes like no other rabbit vibrator. It’s the perfect give for the most discerning pleasure seeker on your list.

SONA Cerise

For Her – SONA Cruise

What can we say about SONA that hasn’t already been (enthusiastically) said in rave reviews? It is uniquely able to bring you to orgasm using sonic pulses rather than traditional vibrations – meaning it resonates deep within the internal structure of the clitoris for a wholly overwhelming experience.LELO-Smart-Wand-large-ivory-cordless-hand-held-massager

For Both of You – Smart Wand

Relaxation and unwinding… that’s what the holidays are really supposed to be about, right? Well, LELO has just the thing. The Smart Wand™ (available in medium and large) is ideal for all-over massages, melting away stress and tension. It’s the gift that keeps on giving to both you and your partner, whether you need to de-stress, or just for fun.GIGI 2

For Your Female Friends – GIGI 2

The GIGI 2 is a classic, and with good reason. It has garnered some of the best reviews for G-spot stimulators, and with all this buzz, why wouldn’t you want to share it with your nearest and dearest? Go from ‘best friend’ to ‘best friend ever’ this Christmas!LELO-Mia2-petal-pink-usb-vibrator

For Sexy Stocking Stuffers – MIA 2

This little gift packs a big punch, and is perfect for treating someone important without breaking the bank. The MIA 2 is a discreet, lipstick-style vibrator that is fully waterproof and USB-chargeable, perfect for a purse or travel bag. The MIA 2 is a perfect example of what great things can come in small packages!LELO-Massage-Candle-flickering-touch-oil

For Setting the Scene – Hot Massage Candle

We see a lot of candles at Christmas, but none will heat up your holiday like the Flickering Touch Massage Candle. With all-natural ingredients, this candle melts into a luxurious massage oil. It comes in 3 delicious scents, and with a 36 hour burn-time, it will take you well into your sexier new year.

Can’t Pick Just One?

Are your holidays stressful enough without trying to pick just one sex toy to wow someone with? Then look no further than the Guilty Pleasures line of gift sets; they’re so sexy it’s criminal, and they offer your favorite toys  at a discount!the-intent-lelo-gift-setThe Intent Gift Set

Let your partner enjoy some serious me-time with The Intent gift set, a beautifully packaged and presented collection of some of LELO’s all-time favorite pleasure objects. Containing the INA 2 dual-stimulating intimate massage for pinpoint pleasure and the sound-responsive SIRI 2 for all out power, as well as 75ml of water-based personal lubricant. As a set you’ll save 41% on the combined retail cost, making  it an incredible gift for a loved one (even if that loved one is yourself)!

the-alibi-lelo-gift-setThe Alibi Gift Set

Have a partner who likes to keep their cards close to their chest?

The Alibi is all about secrecy―inside is the classic lipstick-style, USB-rechargeable and waterproof MIA 2 massager, which quietly offers pinpoint pleasure and looks completely at home in any purse or drawer. It’s paired with the LUNA Beads Noir, a set of duo-balls that enhance stimulation and arousal. The set  also includes 75ml of LELO’s personal moisturizer, and in total saves you 32% off the total combined retail value for a present that’s too perfect to keep to yourself!the-confession-lelo-gift-setThe Confession Gift Set

The best gifts are ones that create an experience for both of you to share together. That’s where the kinky-yet-oh-so-classy Confession Gift Set comes in. Containing LELO’s luxurious silk  SUTRA chainlink cuffs and the world-famous TIANI 3 remote control couples’ massager, as well as 75ml of water-based personal moisturizer, this adventurous gift set offers an endless well of new sensations and experiences, at 44% off the retail price!


…the present itself is not nearly as important as the thought that goes into, so why not show exactly what’s on your mind when you’re thinking of the recipient? Any of these pleasure products, or those on our Bestsellers page will set the recipient up for a very Merry Christmas and happy New Year. Just don’t forget personal moisturizer!

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Young fun never regret

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5 Sex Positions that Should be in Every Lesbian’s Repertoire

When it comes to sex between women, assumptions abound about the positions that are and are not possible.

Well, as nearly every woman will tell you, where there’s a will there’s a way, and when passionate ignites between two women, anything is possible – so here are our top 5 positions that go beyond oral sex.

The Mirror of Venus

If you’re game to grind while looking right into the eyes of your partner, then this is the perfect position!

Sitting astride your partner’s thigh, both of your hands are in prime position for both penetration and clitoral stimulation – as well as licking and kissing nipples.

But it’s also the perfect opportunity to place a small and powerful clitoral vibrator like LILY 2 between you so you can both enjoy its super powered vibrations from different perspectives. Or, why not stimulate each other with SONA and SONA Cruise? Unlike other pleasure products, it doesn’t vibrate but rather reaches the very deepest parts of your clitoris using sonic waves.

The Double Joint

Even fans of traditional missionary will assert that raising the hips of the partner on bottom – and in this case, placing their legs on their partner’s shoulder – is a small adjustment that makes all the difference in the world.

This position is perfect for the intense G-spot stimulation – whether by hand or with a sculpted G-spot massager like GIGI 2 – to not only bring your partner to orgasm, but also to induce squirting!

When using a strap on, the double joint position is also one of the best for simultaneous clitoral stimulation – MIA 2 is the perfect petite companion!

The Ride of the Valkyries

While your partner lies on her back, you are ‘on horseback’  as per reverse cowgirl, but straddling her bent leg. Thus, you have the perfect pressure necessary to keep a small vibe like LILY 2 in place, while stimulating your prone partner behind you. Any internal vibe should have the length required, but may we suggest the SMART WAND Medium as a broad clitoral massager with the perfect length and weight for you to manipulate.

The Spoon

There’s nothing quite as enjoyable as turning an early morning cuddle into slow, intimate sex, and this is one of the perfect positions for it. The big spoon may treat their partner with all of their attention, or use one hand on themselves and the other to penetrate their partner (from behind, with a cupped hand).  

When using a strap on, this rear-entry position is one that works best for many people during anal sex for a slower, more intimate experience. You will be close enough to kiss each other, and have hands free to stimulate yourself and your partner with a personal massager.

To help add leverage, the thrusting partner can also wrap their top leg over yours, or, if you’re flexible, you can try to put your top leg behind theirs. If you feel like things are getting to twisted and complicated, simply move onto your stomach and let your partner shallowly thrust while lying on top of you, almost as if you’re both in the plank position.

The Lazy Dog

This is an extremely simple (and very sexy) position that transitions well from the most classic cunnilingus position – and lends itself to analingus too!

The bottom partner lies on their stomach and arches their back, lifting their hips for their partner’s hand or strap on.  They can also support their chest on cushions so that they can still access their clitoris, or place cushions under their hips with a small concave vibrator like NEA 2.

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